The Language of Confidence(信心的语言)

Are there any words that make you feel confident or diffident?

The language we use programs our brains.Mastering  our language gives us a great degree of mastery over our lives  and our destinies. 
It is important to use the language in the best way possible in order to dramatically improve our quality of life.

（我们使用的语言是我们的大脑。掌握我们的语言使我们能够很好地掌握我们的生活和命运。 以最有效的方式使用语言是非常重要的，以显着改善我们的生活质量。）

Even the smallest of words can have the deepest effect on our subconscious mind, which is like a child, and it doesn't really understand the difference between 
what really happens and what you imagine. It is eager to please and willing to carry out any commands that you give it -- whether you do this knowingly or not is entirely up to you.    
 甚至最小的词在我们的潜意识里有着这深远的作用，就像一个孩子，不真正明白两者之间发生了什么不同和你怎么想的，他渴望令人喜欢，乐意执行你给的任何命令。无论你这是故意与否完全的取决于你。

 

"Try"     
 It is a small word yet it has an amazing impact upon us. 
If someone says, "I'll try to do that" you know that they are not going to be pulling their whole heart into it, and may not even do it at all.
 How often do you use the word try when talking about the things that matter to you? Do you say "I'll try to be more confident" or "I'll try to do that" or "I'll try to call"?   
 Think about something that you would like to achieve, and say it to yourself in two different ways. Firstly say, "I'll try to„ " and notice how you feel. Next say, "I will do„" 
and see how you feel.   The latter makes you feel better than the first one, doesn't it? It gives you a sense of determination, a feeling that it will be done. 
Listen to the people around you and when they say they will try notice if it gets done or not. Eliminate the word try from your dictionary and see how your life improves. 
  努力  这是个很小的词却对我们有着令人惊讶的影响力。如果有一个人说，“我会努力这样做”你知道他们不会去把他们的话完整的记在心里，甚至可能全部不会去做。当讨论一些对你很重要的事情的时候你多久会尝试使用这个词？
你会说“我会设法做的更有信心”或者“我会努力这样做”或者我会努力的。想一些想要实现的目标和说出你自己两条不同的想法。首先说“我会努力”，注意你的感受。下一个说，“我将要做”看你什么感受，后者给你的感觉比第一个要好一点，不是吗？
它给了你意识的决定，因为感觉将要完成。听听你周围的人们当他们说将尝试，注意他们完成了没有。从你的字典里消除这个词看看你的人生改善了吗？

 "Can't"      
This is another small word with a big impact. It disempowers us, makes us feel weak and helpless, and damages our self-esteem. 
It limits our infinite abilities and stifles creativity. Rub it out from your internal dictionary and replace it with something that makes you feel great. 
Instead of saying you can't, why not say something like "I choose„" or "I choose not to„". Using words like this allows you to take back your power and to be in control of your life.  
  不能  这是另外一个很小的词有这很大的影响，它剥夺了我们，使我们感觉脆弱和无助，伤害了我们自尊。他限制了我们的无限能量和扼杀了创造力。把它从我们内在的字典擦除掉和替换掉，
为什么不这样说：“我选择”或者“我选择不”允许你拿回你的权力和去控制你的人生。

Words may appear small and insignificant, yet they can have a deep and lasting effect on us. Mastering your language gives you the power to live whatever life you desire.   
  What words do you use a lot that disempower you? Make a list of words you commonly use and then write next to them some alternatives you can use.
 Make these alternatives words that make you feel fabulous, not only about yourself, but about life and what you are doing!  
单词可能显得很渺小和微不足道，他可以深入持续的影响这我们。掌握你的语言无论什么时候给你想要的生活让你充满力量。 剥夺力量的词什么最多，列一张常用单词清单然后在旁边写上可替代的词供你使用。使这些词让你感觉难以置信，
不仅仅关于你自己，还关于你的生活和你在做什么！