老婆说是没时间看《随遇而安》，让我亲情赞助一下，看完了再讲给她听，我只好遵命了，据说jobs的老婆和我干的同一个工种。

　　昨天下了地铁，刚好看到有卖的，就买了一本，有点对不起孟爷爷，买了盗版，谁让正版的太贵了呢。

　　孟爷爷不愧是印刷厂干过的，内容的分量一般，但是排版的水平很高，270多页的书，居然只有270千字，我一个小时就看了四分之一，也算是一种快餐文化吧。
　　感想不多，有下面几点吧：
　　1：孟非在广播系统做事，有家庭的原因，他的父母是北京广播学院的第一批学生，都是从事广播事业的。家庭的环境比较偏知识分子的，因此孟非从小喜欢文学也就理所当然了。这也可以解释一个问题，为什么一个做过印刷工，摆过地摊的人，最终可以做到主持人这个位置。因此更加让我坚信了一个观点，就是家庭对于个人的 影响虽不是起决定作用，也是有着无可替代的地位。
　　2：孟非给人的最大感觉就是人格很健全，心理健康，这或许也是社会现在最缺少的。我觉得这应该与他成长在母系氏族，并生活在一个大杂院的经历有很强的关 系，他很长时间跟着外婆一起生活，外婆漂亮善良能干（孟非的感觉），另外大杂院虽人多嘴杂，但热热闹闹，给了一个小孩对于社会生活最原始和亲切的朦胧感觉。所以人最重要的是接触世界，接触一个美好而现实的世界，才能有着健康而健全的身心和性格。
 　　3：孟非也有叛逆期，或许叛逆期给予孟非更多的是一种不好的印象，所以着墨不多，但是人都有这个时期，这都是正常现象，人总要有点激情，年轻的时候做点过头的事情，也算是骁勇和智慧并存嘛。
　　4：给我印象最深的是里面的一句：人得记忆力非常好，或许是因为判断力特别差。我记得我小时候特别是初中的记忆力特别好，历史书我真的是倒背如流，小时候 复习历史就是躺在床上，在心里把历史书从第一页到最后一页所有的考点背一遍，包括插图。但是我的情商好像不高，小时候对于很多事情都是人云亦云，只有对错 之分。其实世界应该是彩色的。
　　看了70页左右，也没什么特别多的感受，不过感觉孟非这个人挺平面的，《随遇而安》里面的一些话和一些事，未必都是真的，但是他的文笔和叙述方式很平和，让人感觉到一个真实的孟非。所以虽然这本书分量有点轻，但是我相信不妨碍大家对这个人的喜爱。
　　人嘛，归根到底活在一个传统当中，不论这个世界如何变化，总有一些东西让我们坚持，《随遇而安》或许并不励志，但是这也是一种传统。


First Impression of <Be Peaceful With The Life>

My sweetie said she had no time to read Meng Fei’s book < Be Peaceful With The Life >, So I have to acknowledge that it’s my honor to do this job and share her my feeling. According to <Steven Jobs>, Maybe I’m doing the same job with Jobs’swife.

At the exit of the railway station, I bought it. I’m afraid that I should say apology to Dear Meng, This is a pirate rather than a genuine for the genuine is too pricey.

Dear Meng indeed has some experience on printing, the content of the book is a little weak. It just contains 270 K words and by means of layout, this book surprisely has 270 pages. Reading quarter of the book just cost me about one hour, so maybe this book should be classified as the so-called Fast Food Culture.

Just some feelings as follows.

1: The current job of Meng has a relation with his family. His parents are the first graduates of Peking Broadcast College and they devoted themselves to the broadcast-related job, So his family has a cultural background and it’s reasonable that Meng likes the literature. This is the reason why Meng who used to be a printer and open a stand finally becomes a famous host. So I become more and more insist on that the family plays a not critical, but unreplacable role on everyone’s future and decision.

2: The best advantage of Meng is his mentally healthy personality which misses in our society. I think it's affected by his growing environment in the mother-leaded family and the life in the public countyard. He had been raised by his grandmother for  a along time. His grandmother is a beautiful, sweet and diligent woman. Although the public countyard has its disadvantages, it still give him a basic and kindly feeling of the world. So I think, The most important thing for person‘s growing is to touch the world, especially a real and sweet world. Then you will be physically and mentally healthy.

3: Meng also experienced the rebellious period. Maybe this period didn’t leave him a good impression , he just wrote a little on it. But I think the rebellious period is common for teenagers. We should live with passion, maybe the youngers have done something beyond the normal,but we should not over-complain them.

4: The most impressive sentence is, People with better memory woulda a worse judgement. When I was young, I has a very good memory, I can rehearse the history book fluently incluing the illustrations and page numbers. But my EQ is not good.At that time, in my opinion, everything in the world is wrong or right, I should do the right thing and avoid making mistakes. Later, I realized that the world is more complxe than my imagination.

After 70 pages,I feel that the people like Meng commonly exists around us. Maybe the stories and words in the book are sweet lies, but this book is peaceful and let me feel a real and stereo Meng.

For everyone, we should insist on a tradition no matter how world changes. <Be peacefull with the life> will not give you a great motivity and passion to your work or your life, but it represents the tradition.