首先应确认本地Sql 的Configation Manager中的Sql Service服务运行正常。如果不能显示Service请安装R2 Sp1补丁。

然后进入,选择Surface Area Configuration For Service and Connections

重新启动Service.

接着使用下图Server Name 登录Sql

一般按照上面的顺序操作就可解决此issue。

但如果还是不能进入Sql并且提示:

Cannot connect to SQLEXPRESS.
A connection was successfully established with the server, but then an error occurred during the login process. (provider: Shared Memory Provider, error: 0 - No process is on the other end of the pipe.) (Microsoft SQL Server, Error: 233)

请参考此链接进行操作。

http://blog.csdn.net/fengxing666/article/details/7249040

http://nali.org/sql-server-a-network-related-or-instance-specific-error-occurred-while-establishing-a-connection-to-sql-server/