=NM_CUSTOMDRAW是你点击列表内部是的消息映射:

例如:我想在我删除一行列表的数据,但是删除后下一行数据继续保持高亮状态

void CChildView::OnDel()
{
    int count = m_list.GetSelectionMark();


    if (count == -1)
     {
         AfxMessageBox(_T("请先选中一行在删除!"));
         return;
     }
     m_list.DeleteItem(count);
     TRACE("%d\n", count);
     m_list.SetSelectionMark(count);
}
void CChildView::OnNMCustomdraw(NMHDR *pNMHDR, LRESULT *pResult)
{

        NMLVCUSTOMDRAW* pLVCD = reinterpret_cast<NMLVCUSTOMDRAW*>(pNMHDR);

        *pResult = CDRF_DODEFAULT;

        if (CDDS_PREPAINT == pLVCD->nmcd.dwDrawStage)
        {
            *pResult = CDRF_NOTIFYITEMDRAW;
        }
        else if (CDDS_ITEMPREPAINT == pLVCD->nmcd.dwDrawStage)
        {
            *pResult = CDRF_NOTIFYSUBITEMDRAW;
        }
        else if ((CDDS_ITEMPREPAINT | CDDS_SUBITEM) == pLVCD->nmcd.dwDrawStage)
        {

            COLORREF clrNewTextColor, clrNewBkColor;

            int nItem = static_cast<int>(pLVCD->nmcd.dwItemSpec);

            int index = m_list.GetSelectionMark();

            if (index == nItem)//如果要刷新的项为当前选择的项,则将文字设为白色,背景色设为蓝色
            {
                clrNewTextColor = RGB(255, 255, 255);        //Set the text to white
                clrNewBkColor = RGB(49, 106, 197);        //Set the background color to blue
            }
            else
            {
                clrNewTextColor = RGB(0, 0, 0);        //set the text black
                clrNewBkColor = RGB(255, 255, 255);    //leave the background color white
            }

            pLVCD->clrText = clrNewTextColor;
            pLVCD->clrTextBk = clrNewBkColor;

            *pResult = CDRF_DODEFAULT;
        }
}