比较简单的做法,增加一个子节点提示.然后开线程请求真实的子节点,完毕后替换提示节点。 

代码如下
using  System;using System.Collections.Generic;
using System.ComponentModel;using  System.Data;
using System.Drawing;using System.Text;
using  System.Windows.Forms;
namespace WindowsApplication11{
    public partial  class Form1 : Form
    {
        //用于控制线程的方法
        public class  ThreadStartInfo
        {
            public TreeNode  node=null;
            //模拟载入数据
            public  void  LoadNode()
            {
                System.Threading.Thread.Sleep(5000);
                string[]  str = new string[] { "jinjazz", "csdn"  ,"sina","google","yahoo","nba","fifa"};
                this.AddNode(node,  str);
            }
            delegate void dAddNode(TreeNode node,  string[] str);
            //添加节点
            void AddNode(TreeNode node,  string[] str)
            {
                if  (this.node.TreeView.FindForm().InvokeRequired)
                {
                    this.node.TreeView.FindForm().Invoke(new  dAddNode(AddNode), new object[] { node, str  });
                }
                else
                {
                    node.Nodes.Clear();
                    foreach  (string strNode in  str)
                    {
                        node.Nodes.Add(strNode);
                    }
                }
            }
        }
        public  Form1()
        {
            InitializeComponent();
        }
        private  void Form1_Load(object sender, EventArgs  e)
        {
            //添加根节点
            this.treeView1.Nodes.Add(new  TreeNode("root"));
            this.treeView1.AfterSelect += new  TreeViewEventHandler(treeView1_AfterSelect);
        }
        void  treeView1_AfterSelect(object sender, TreeViewEventArgs  e)
        {
            if (e.Node.Tag==null||e.Node.Tag.ToString() ==  "")
            {
                ThreadStartInfo s = new  ThreadStartInfo();
                s.node =  e.Node;
                //已经载入过的就不要载入了
                s.node.Tag =  1;
                new System.Threading.Thread(new  System.Threading.ThreadStart(s.LoadNode)).Start();
                e.Node.Nodes.Add("正在载入..");
            }
        }
    }