很简单的,主要是设计控件的MouseDown、MouseLeave、MouseMove事件。:
            1、定义一个枚举类型,描述光标状态
            private enum EnumMousePointPosition
               {
                MouseSizeNone   = 0, //'无
                MouseSizeRight   = 1, //'拉伸右边框
                MouseSizeLeft   = 2, //'拉伸左边框
                MouseSizeBottom   = 3, //'拉伸下边框
                MouseSizeTop   = 4, //'拉伸上边框
                MouseSizeTopLeft = 5, //'拉伸左上角
                MouseSizeTopRight = 6, //'拉伸右上角
                MouseSizeBottomLeft = 7, //'拉伸左下角
                MouseSizeBottomRight= 8, //'拉伸右下角
                MouseDrag    = 9   // '鼠标拖动
               }
            2、定义几个变量
            const int Band = 5;
               const int MinWidth=10;
               const int MinHeight=10;
               private EnumMousePointPosition m_MousePointPosition;
               private Point p,p1;
            
            3、定义自己的MyMouseDown事件
               private void MyMouseDown(object sender,System.Windows.Forms.MouseEventArgs e)
               {
                p.X=e.X;
                p.Y=e.Y;
            
                p1.X=e.X;
                p1.Y=e.Y;   
               }
            
            4、定义自己的MyMouseLeave事件
               private void MyMouseLeave(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
               {
                m_MousePointPosition = EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeNone;
                this.Cursor=Cursors.Arrow;
               }
            5、设计一个函数,确定光标在控件不同位置的样式
               private EnumMousePointPosition MousePointPosition(Size size,System.Windows.Forms.MouseEventArgs e)
               {
               
                if ((e.X >= -1 * Band) | (e.X <= size.Width) | (e.Y >= -1 * Band) | (e.Y <= size.Height)) 
                {
                 if (e.X < Band) 
                 {
                  if (e.Y < Band) {return EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeTopLeft;}
                  else 
                  {
                   if (e.Y > -1 * Band + size.Height) 
                   {return EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeBottomLeft;}
                   else 
                   {return EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeLeft;}
                  }
                 }
                 else
                 {
                  if (e.X > -1 * Band + size.Width)
                  {
                   if (e.Y < Band)
                   {return EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeTopRight;}
                   else 
                   {
                    if (e.Y > -1 * Band + size.Height)
                    {return EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeBottomRight;}
                    else
                    {return EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeRight;}
                   }
                  }
                  else
                  {
                   if (e.Y < Band) 
                   {return EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeTop;}
                   else
                   {
                    if (e.Y > -1 * Band + size.Height) 
                    {return EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeBottom;}
                    else 
                    {return EnumMousePointPosition.MouseDrag;}
                   }
                  }
                 }
                }
                else 
                {return EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeNone;}
               }
                 
            6、定义自己的MyMouseMove事件,在这个事件里,会使用上面设计的函数
               private void MyMouseMove(object sender,System.Windows.Forms.MouseEventArgs e)
               {
                Control lCtrl =(sender as Control);
                if (e.Button==MouseButtons.Left)
                {
                 switch (m_MousePointPosition)
                 {
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseDrag:      
                   lCtrl.Left =lCtrl.Left+ e.X - p.X;
                   lCtrl.Top =lCtrl.Top+ e.Y - p.Y;
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeBottom:
                   lCtrl.Height = lCtrl.Height + e.Y - p1.Y;
                   p1.X=e.X;
                   p1.Y=e.Y; //'记录光标拖动的当前点
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeBottomRight:
                   lCtrl.Width   = lCtrl.Width + e.X - p1.X;
                   lCtrl.Height = lCtrl.Height + e.Y - p1.Y;
                   p1.X=e.X;
                   p1.Y=e.Y; //'记录光标拖动的当前点
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeRight:
                   lCtrl.Width   = lCtrl.Width + e.X - p1.X;      
            //       lCtrl.Height = lCtrl.Height + e.Y - p1.Y;
                   p1.X=e.X;
                   p1.Y=e.Y; //'记录光标拖动的当前点
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeTop:
                   lCtrl.Top   = lCtrl.Top + (e.Y - p.Y);
                   lCtrl.Height = lCtrl.Height - (e.Y - p.Y);
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeLeft:
                   lCtrl.Left   = lCtrl.Left + e.X - p.X;
                   lCtrl.Width   = lCtrl.Width - (e.X - p.X);
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeBottomLeft:
                   lCtrl.Left   = lCtrl.Left + e.X - p.X;
                   lCtrl.Width   = lCtrl.Width - (e.X - p.X);
                   lCtrl.Height = lCtrl.Height+ e.Y - p1.Y;
                   p1.X=e.X;
                   p1.Y=e.Y; //'记录光标拖动的当前点
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeTopRight:
                   lCtrl.Top   = lCtrl.Top + (e.Y - p.Y);
                   lCtrl.Width   = lCtrl.Width + (e.X - p1.X);
                   lCtrl.Height = lCtrl.Height - (e.Y - p.Y);
                   p1.X=e.X;
                   p1.Y=e.Y; //'记录光标拖动的当前点
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeTopLeft:
                   lCtrl.Left   = lCtrl.Left + e.X - p.X;
                   lCtrl.Top   = lCtrl.Top + (e.Y - p.Y);
                   lCtrl.Width   = lCtrl.Width - (e.X - p.X);
                   lCtrl.Height = lCtrl.Height - (e.Y - p.Y);
                   break;
                  default:
                   break;
                 }
                 if (lCtrl.Width<MinWidth) lCtrl.Width=MinWidth;
                 if (lCtrl.Height<MinHeight) lCtrl.Height=MinHeight;      
                }
                else
                {
                 m_MousePointPosition = MousePointPosition(lCtrl.Size, e);   //'判断光标的位置状态
                 switch (m_MousePointPosition)   //'改变光标
                 {
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeNone:
                   this.Cursor = Cursors.Arrow;        //'箭头
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseDrag:
                   this.Cursor = Cursors.SizeAll;      //'四方向
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeBottom:
                   this.Cursor = Cursors.SizeNS;       //'南北
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeTop:
                   this.Cursor = Cursors.SizeNS;       //'南北
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeLeft:
                   this.Cursor = Cursors.SizeWE;       //'东西
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeRight:
                   this.Cursor = Cursors.SizeWE;       //'东西
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeBottomLeft:
                   this.Cursor = Cursors.SizeNESW;     //'东北到南西
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeBottomRight:
                   this.Cursor = Cursors.SizeNWSE;     //'东南到西北
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeTopLeft:
                   this.Cursor = Cursors.SizeNWSE;     //'东南到西北
                   break;
                  case EnumMousePointPosition.MouseSizeTopRight:
                   this.Cursor = Cursors.SizeNESW;     //'东北到南西
                   break;
                  default:
                   break;
                 }
                }
               }
              
            7、制作一个初始化过程,将界面panel1上的所有控件都绑定MyMouseDown、MyMouseLeave、MyMouseMove事件,记得在Form初始化或者Form_Load时先执行它。
            
               private void initProperty()
               {
                for(int i = 0; i < this.panel1.Controls.Count; i++) 
                { 
                 this.panel1.Controls[i].MouseDown+= new System.Windows.Forms.MouseEventHandler(MyMouseDown);
                 this.panel1.Controls[i].MouseLeave+= new System.EventHandler(MyMouseLeave);
                 this.panel1.Controls[i].MouseMove += new System.Windows.Forms.MouseEventHandler(MyMouseMove);
                }
               }
            8、ok,在运行之前你在panel1上放几个控件,执行程序,应该可以随便移动、改变其大小了