[Life]A Complaint Free World
The world is full of complaint, actually we don't like this situation, we don't like the people who often complain. When you change yourself, you have changed the world. Let us make ourselves be a complaint free person first.
If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain.---Maya Angelou
Be the change you want to see in the world.---Gandhi.(My motto)
It is said that it takes 21 days of a person doing a new behavior for it to become a habit. Let us make the uncomplaint be one of our habits.
First you need bracelet, anyone you like.
second, behave yourself as follows:
- Begin to wear the bracelet on either wrist.
- When you catch yourself complaining, gossiping, or criticizing, move the bracelet to the other wrist and begin again.
- If you hear someone else who is wearing a bracelet complain,it is ok to point out their need to switch the bracelet to the other arm; BUT if you are going to do this, you must move your bracelet first! Because you are complaining about their complaining.
- Stay with it. It may take many months to reach 21 consecutive days. The average is 4 to 8 months.
The rules above are excerpted from the book of 《A Complaint Free World》, you can find more on this book. You can also find much more in details in the website:http://www.acomplaintfreeworld.org/. This is a non-profit, non-religious organization which provides Complaint Free purple bracelets and other materials to help people affect positive change in their lives by becoming Complaint Free.
The campaign is launched in 2006 by Will Bowen, the Author of the book 《A complaint free world》.